Vigil Sitting
Peaceful, attentive presence at the bedside during the active dying process. No one should leave this world alone — and no family should carry that vigil entirely by themselves.
Hourly · Sliding scale availableCompassionate, non-medical support for individuals and families navigating the sacred passage of death — with presence, dignity, and care.
"We're all just walking each other home."— Ram Dass
A death doula is a non-medical guide who walks alongside the dying and those who love them. I help you navigate the practical, the emotional, and the spiritual — so that this time can be as full of meaning, dignity, and peace as possible.
Death is not something to be rushed, medicalized, or feared. It is a natural and sacred transition that deserves to be witnessed, honored, and held with the fullness it deserves.
My role is to help you meet it with presence, clarity, and care. Whatever you need — I am here.
Every family, every person, every passing is different. I offer flexible support that meets you exactly where you are — whether you're planning months ahead or in the middle of something urgent.
Peaceful, attentive presence at the bedside during the active dying process. No one should leave this world alone — and no family should carry that vigil entirely by themselves.
Hourly · Sliding scale availableThoughtful, unhurried guidance through end-of-life wishes, healthcare directives, and the conversations that matter most — one of the most loving gifts you can give.
Package pricing · Contact for detailsYour stories deserve to be kept. I work with individuals to capture memories, record life reviews, write letters, and create meaningful artifacts that will outlast a lifetime.
Project-based · Free consultationGrief doesn't begin at death — it begins the moment we know it is coming. I offer emotional support and steady presence for families navigating anticipatory grief and caregiver exhaustion.
Ongoing support · Flexible scheduling"You don't have to navigate this alone."
Schedule a Free ConversationI came to this work because I am passionate about sitting with people at the edge of life. In my experience, those who are closest to death are also closest to something profound — a kind of wisdom that is rare and irreplaceable.
I want to be the person who shows up for that. Who doesn't look away. Who holds space for those navigating the most sacred transition of their lives, with full presence, compassion, and care.
I completed my training and certification through the Conscious Dying Collective, where I developed the skills to support individuals and families through every dimension of the dying process — practical, emotional, and spiritual.
I serve clients in the Denver and Boulder area and am honored to travel anywhere when the fit is right.
"Jacob's presence changed everything. We didn't feel alone. We felt witnessed, supported — and somehow, even grateful."
"I had no idea what a death doula was before my mother's diagnosis. Now I can't imagine having done this without Jacob."
"The legacy project he helped us create for our father is something we will treasure forever. Jacob's gift is his presence — calm, unhurried, and deeply human."
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Whether you're in the middle of something difficult, supporting someone you love, or simply planning ahead — I'd love to connect.
The first conversation is always free. No pressure, no commitment — just a space to talk and see if we might be a good fit.